Well… at least, most of us masturbate.
Before you think I am a pervert on the loose with nothing better to write about, let me start off to why people do not talk about masturbation.
True? You would rather boast about how good a lover you are and start rattling about the bits and pieces of your sexcapades than telling your friends you had a good time playing with yourself. But why the embarrassment when every single individual, usually adults in general, knows you masturbate? How embarrassing can masturbating be when it is just an act of stimulating oneself to a point of orgasm?
Being asian, I was brought up in a conversative family and being in the conservative family, a lot of things had to be experienced first hand and hands on. I am not clear of how the west actually educate their young but in my house, masturbation is like a taboo. It is even worse imagining about masturbation than watching a pair of tits on tv.
- Some partners restrict their other halves from doing it, let alone talk about it.
Why? Insecure with the other half’s pair of hands or afraid their fantasies are something you can’t live up to? Come on. Maybe the one who is setting this rule is the one who is doing it and having those wild fantasies, hence the fear the partner doing the same.
But with some of the reasons mentioned above as to why people do not talk about masturbation openly when most of us actually do, why can’t we just make masturbation a normal form of private activity without the feeling of guilt or disgust? (More …)
